Dr. Cynthia Edwards-Hawver, Psy.D.

Licensed Psychologist Specializing in Narcissistic Relationships, Partner’s of Addicts, High-Conflict Divorce, and Parallel Parenting

You felt something was wrong long before you had words for it. So did I.

For nearly three decades working in the field of psychology, I have sat with women trying to make sense of the same confusing relationship dynamics you may be navigating right now.

Through both clinical and forensic work, I began to notice patterns that traditional couples therapy and relationship advice were never designed to address-the intersection of narcissistic relationship dynamics, addiction patterns, and high-conflict divorce.

In fact, for many of the women I worked with, couples therapy hadn't just failed to help. It had made things worse, deepening the self-blame, the confusion, and the belief that they were the problem.

Over time it became impossible to ignore: what many women were experiencing had a deeper psychological structure than anyone was really talking about.

That realization didn't just change how I work with clients. It changed the entire direction of my career.

Training, Clinical Experience, and Forensic Background

I earned my Bachelor of Science with Distinction from Cornell University and completed my doctoral degree in clinical psychology at Wright State University.

My doctoral training was deliberately broad and included clinical placements across some of the most demanding psychological environments that exist: Children and Youth, inner-city schools, conducting psychological and forensic assessments, university counseling centers, working in an emergency room, couples therapy practice, and completing a placement in a prison with male offenders of domestic violence. My doctoral dissertation consisted of developing a primary prevention curriculum for eating disorders. All of my training and research gave me something that years of private practice alone cannot-the ability to work with complexity, crisis, and high-conflict human behavior across a variety of settings.

I completed my APA-accredited internship at Penn State University, followed by working five years at the University of Scranton as a staff psychologist and adjunct faculty member, teaching both undergraduate and graduate level psychology courses.

I have been working in private practice for 20 years and grew a thriving group practice where I hired, trained, and supervised other therapists, including doctoral-level students completing their clinical practicum training in therapy and psychological assessment. I’ve not only done this work for decades. I’ve trained the people who do it.

My clinical experience spans children, adolescents, and adults, as well as extensive work in both group therapy and couples therapy. That breadth matters in this niche. When I work with a mother navigating a high-conflict divorce or a narcissistic relationship dynamic, I understand not just what she is experiencing but what her children are experiencing. I’ve sat with those children. I know what they carry and what they need.

My forensic psychology work includes completing custody evaluations, testifying in court, navigating high-conflict family systems, and family court cases. My forensic background is what separates my work from most therapists operating in this space. I understand what happens inside the courtroom and outside of it. I know how high-conflict personalities operate within legal systems. I know what custody evaluators look for, what courts often miss, what to look for in an attorney, and what documentation actually protects you and your children.

I am a PSYPACT provider, licensed to practice telehealth across multiple states, which means wherever you are, if you are ready to do this work, we can work together. I am an active member of The Pennsylvania Psychological Association. In addition to clinical work, I also provide consulting related to high-conflict personalities, adversarial relationship dynamics, and complex family systems. This consulting work often supports attorneys navigating difficult custody cases as well as organizations or professionals managing challenging interpersonal dynamics.

What I Know Personally

I am a single mother. I have navigated my own version of exactly what you may be living right now: the confusion, the self-doubt, the exhaustion of trying to parent while managing a high-conflict situation that defied every framework I’ve been trained in.

I know what it means to sit with a situation and think, I should understand this better than anyone. And still not be able to fully explain it to yourself, let alone to the people around you.

I know what it means to search for help and find resources that address one piece of the picture but never the whole thing. I know what it feels like when couples therapy makes things worse instead of better.

I know what it means to keep functioning and show up for your children, your work, your life-while privately carrying something that burnout doesn't even begin to describe.

I know what parallel parenting actually costs. I know what it means to structure your children's lives carefully around a high-conflict co-parenting situation. I know what it takes to keep showing up for your kids when the situation never fully resolves.

I did not come to this work only through training and clinical experience. I came to it through living it. And that changes everything about how I show up for the women I work with.

I understand it from the inside.

There Is a Way Through This

Today my work lives at the intersection of clinical practice, professional consultation, and public education.

I work one-on-one with mothers navigating narcissistic relationship dynamics, addiction patterns, high-conflict divorce, and parallel parenting, providing the kind of depth, clarity, and clinical precision that this work demands.

I consult with family law attorneys, mediators, and other professionals on the psychological dynamics of high-conflict personalities, coercive control, and custody conflict, bringing a forensic lens to situations that require more than standard clinical language.

I am currently completing my forthcoming book on narcissistic burnout, the psychological framework I developed to describe what happens to women after years inside these dynamics and building an educational platform that includes a YouTube channel, podcast, courses, and a membership community, as well as public speaking and media commentary on high-conflict relationship dynamics and divorce.

And I am still healing. Not because the work isn't working but because this is what I tell every woman who sits across from me: this is not a quick fix. It is a long, nonlinear process that requires patience, support, and a willingness to keep going even when it doesn't feel like enough. I know that from the inside too.

This is not a practice built around volume. It is built around depth. If you are ready to do this work, I want to hear from you.

You Don't Have To Figure This Out Alone

If you have read this far, something here resonated. Maybe you finally have language for something you have been carrying for a long time. Maybe you’re still not sure what you are dealing with, and that is okay too. You do not have to have it figured out before you reach out.

What I know is this: the women who find their way to this work are not fragile. They are some of the most capable, strong, high functioning women I’ve ever worked with. And they’re also exhausted in a way that their competence has not prepared them for.

If that is you, I built this work for exactly where you are.