One of the hardest truths you’ll ever have to accept is this:
You can’t make someone change if they don’t want to.
In this deeply validating episode, Dr. Cynthia Edwards-Hawver dives into the gut-wrenching reality that no matter how much you love, support, or sacrifice for someone—they won’t change unless they want to. Whether you’re stuck in the “maybe” loop, grieving the person they could have been, or parenting through heartbreak, this is the episode for you.
You’ll learn:
How to recognize when someone truly has no intention of changing
The link between toxic hope, emotional burnout, and trauma bonds
How to stop blaming yourself and start reclaiming your energy
What boundaries actually look like when the other person resists
How to heal when grief, confusion, and guilt keep you stuck
This is must-hear support for any high-functioning woman trying to stay hopeful in a situation that’s draining the life out of her.
Hope, Grief, and Letting Go
What to Do When They Won’t Change
The Mama Shrink Podcast
(Season 3, Episode 3)
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